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we listen to your concerns. national counseling session! we have top-class guests today. han goeun! kim seonggyeong! jung yonghwa! hwang kwanghee! you're enjoying a newlywed life. i hear you don't go out.

i normally don't go out that much. i don't go out even more now. she's keeping to her house. how did she come? i heard you told her to come. we go to the same spa. we go to the public bath together. i told her to come on the show. we ran into each other in the tub looking like we were when we were born.

the both of you? i really enjoy watching the show. i told her i enjoyed it and to invite me. she said okay. 3 hours later, i got a call. you were called right away. i was very happy. you must have liked the show a lot. i've known her for years,

but i never saw her husband. i heard he's 4 years younger than you. yes. (that's right) he's tall and good looking? in my eyes, he's the best in the world. the best in the world. what's best about being married? i have someone to rely on.

sure. my daily life changed a lot. i had insomnia, but that's gone. he must put you to sleep well. really. 3-4 hours of sleep were a lot for me. you're so surprised. you must sleep a lot. yes… how many hours?

8-9 hours. i get tired if i only sleep for 7 hours. that's a blessing, too. i sleep because i have so much time. i'm not at their level. oh, no. people don't have levels. i'm not as much of a star as them. you sleep 8 hours. you're a star.

what does that have to do with it? you're the best here. how much sleep do you get, yonghwa? i have insomnia, too. i feel refreshed if i get 5 hours of sleep. 5 hours. kwanghee? 6 hours. you sleep the most! you sleep for 8 hours!

you're the queen. who gets 8 hours of sleep these days? she's a successful person. she can sleep that much because she's happy. yonghwa and kwanghee, there's a rumor that the two of you suddenly became close friends. we're close, but i don't know how we got close. he kept saying we were close on tv. you grew close without knowing it?

brainwashed… is that how you make friends? i debuted later than he did. i wanted to become popular quickly. i thought if i said he was my friend, i'd be called more. who became friends in that manner? yonghwa, lee joon. g-dragon, g-dragon.

we sang together recently. with taeyang. you weren't close before? we didn't know each other. i kept saying g-d. say it and it will come true. i released an album and i'm on an entertainment program with yonghwa. who else do you want to be close with? kim soohyun.

these days? (he's so bold) song joongki. say soohyun and joongki. you shouldn't say their last names, too. who are you going to be close with? joongki! soohyun! and what's his name…

minho! minho! i'll appear with them soon. okay. okay. i think you will. i'll grow close and i'll come with them. yonghwa, you came as kwanghee's friend. cnblue released a new song? what… don't.

cnblue is a group. you're here alone, so we won't hear it. i want to hear it. goeun wants to hear it. (what sense) i didn't come to promote our song, but since goeun wants to hear it… right. oh, there's a mic here.

where was this? ("you're so fine" / jung yonghwa, cnblue) (the unique boldness of cnblue) (the lyrics are sweet) (everyone is drawn by the melody) that's how it goes. (he sings so well) he sings well. how can you sing so well? live.

live. live. i never sang like that. what about the four of you? was there a time you felt you were so pretty? i… i was prettier when i was little. when you were little. i heard that. you were really pretty. i'm sure you can't believe it,

but i was told i was prettier than my sister. - than seongryeong? / - yes. when you were two or three? two months or three months? two months? i was always told i was pretty. when she looked prettier. she's pretty. she's prettier than her sister.

she's a natural beauty. - how cute! / - she's really pretty. she said she was prettier than her sister. her sister is pretty. what's wrong with you? her sister is prettier. they're both pretty. what about the rest of you? when do you think you look best?

me? 3 months after getting a botox shot. really? the skin is tight. look at that. when was this? not long after the shot. you're not that happy with that? i look swollen.

that's when you were swollen? the makeup took well. (hm…) i can't tell which is which. yonghwa, what about you? i'm curious. when i sweat during a performance. he looks great on stage. a man who works is charming. 'addicted love' won a fourth time last week.

will it win a fifth time today? what about the winner? the winner will receive a prize worth $1,000. we have three new concerns. show us what they are! ('find my husband') ('can't take it anymore!') ('hey, stop!') the title is 'find my husband'.

hello, i'm a housewife of 4 years who lives in miryang. my husband always said this before we got married. "honey, i'll work really hard and make you" "the happiest woman in the world." but… my marriage life is the unhappiest in the world. i'm always alone because my husband only loves his work and not me.

oh, he's a workaholic. we were finally eating out one day. honey, it's so nice to eat out with you. try this. ah… "hello? you're at the store?" "wait a moment." "a customer is here. i have to go." "eat by yourself." i ate jjamppong by myself that day.

honey, you know it's my mom's birthday, right? the family is getting together. "i have to work. go by yourself." it's his mother-in-law. honey, it's grandmother's 80th birthday. "i can't go!" "how many times do i have to tell you?" grandmother's 80th birthday? why did i marry this man?

when he washes his face… "agh!" his nose bleeds? when he eats… when he sleeps… why? what? his nose bleeds all the time from overworking. am i going to become a widow?

is this a happy marriage life? a wife suffering because her husband works so much. come on out! (who is suffering because her husband only cares about his work?) (gwon bora) oh, oh, oh! oh!

are you alright? what is this? this is a first. it must not be slippery. oil it! yonghwa and kwanghee, help her out. she ran down the slide. grab the hand of the idol you like. hold the hand you like. (kwanghee wins)

he's so loud. (a scream and a turn in times of joy) what a scream. times have changed. okay, okay. sit down. even if times change, nice people are nice. please say hello. hello, i'm newlywed, gwon bora. a lot of people are busy with work.

are you here because your husband works a lot more than others? it's too much. he goes to work in the morning and comes home late at night. every day. sunday, too? around one. - one? / - sometimes, he doesn't come home. he doesn't come home?

- because of work? / - yes. did you check if he's working? i was suspicious. maybe he has another woman. that's understandable. i secretly followed him a month ago. - you followed him? / - really? i was suspicious. he went to the store. did you check inside?

(the foot of the candle is dark) i went in. he didn't even know. what does he do? leather alterations. bags or wallets. why would he be so busy with that? he must get a lot of work. yes and he focuses a lot. is he slow?

i don't think so. you have a lot stacked up inside. tell us everything. we've been married for 4 years now. we never went on a date. we didn't watch a movie. you never ate out? i have to beg and beg to eat out. - the jjamppong you mentioned? / - yes.

he left you alone and went to work. you never went to see a movie? my birthday and our anniversary is november 2. it's the same day? he didn't do anything that day. once, i begged for two months and we went to gangwon-do for three days. you went. i begged and begged to go once in 4 years.

why are you yelling at me? you said you never went. it was only once. he sulked the whole time and didn't even talk. when he talked, it was only about work. i said we should just go home. you suggested going back home? he finally smiled and said good. on the way to gangwon-do?

when we were there. we just came back home. he was worried about work. you didn't even spend one night there? no. he wasn't like that when you dated, was he? you must have gone on dates. he was busy then, too. when you dated?

but that was charming. i didn't think he would starve me. you were blinded by love. that's right. many times, you date a person and break up for the same reason. the same reason? that makes sense. he said he wouldn't let my hands get wet.

they got wet a lot, right? he doesn't come home, so i have to do everything. i feel like a maid. he said he wouldn't get her hands wet, but they're wet. let's meet the husband. where are you? - hello. / - hello. he's really young. how did you come today? what about work?

i have to work. i'm nervous even now. you're nervous? she doesn't understand though. i came because i was frustrated. you were frustrated? why do you have so much work? is there that much work? it's meticulous work. it becomes perfected with more work.

even if i can't reach 100%, i'd like to reach at least 90%. she said you didn't watch a movie in 4 years. isn't that a bit extreme? i think watching a movie is a waste of time. she always wants to go somewhere. i didn't marry her to go on dates. i married her to live with her. what's the meaning of living together?

not living apart. not living apart? you're always apart. they're just sharing a house. you're the owner and she's the tenant. what about your anniversary? i don't understand why anniversaries are such a big deal. all i know is each day that comes around.

well, each day comes seven times a week, but a birthday only comes once a year. yes, but it will come again the next year. never mind that. she's upset about it. it's about making the person you love happy. don't you want to do that? i didn't think about that. you don't want to live apart, but why don't you think about her being upset?

what about your parents? they raised you. you don't have to remember their birthdays? my wife does. did you marry her to send her on birthdays? (it's spring, but it's hot) everyone. keep it inside. a few people swore.

it will air. someone said kill him. don't say that. (did you hear that?) food for a rite is prepared at holidays. i went to his parents' place by myself. i wouldn't have been so lonely if he was there. i thought she would understand. it wasn't like i was out having fun. i was busy with work.

it's such a waste of time to be held up like that. i'd like to see him work. why do you work so much? there must be a reason. i didn't have a lot of allowance or eat whatever i wanted to when i was little. do you eat well now? (bloated) (if you just look at his stomach, he's successful)

go on. i was walking along when i was in middle school. a mom was walking with her child. the child dropped the hot dog he was eating. hot dog. she told him to throw it away. i still remember picking it up and eating it. i don't want my family to be like that. we did that a lot when we were little.

never mind that. did you eat it all? did you make a lot of money? compared to other people my age… do you think he made a lot of money? when he starts a job, it takes 4-5 days. if he's not satisfied with it in the least bit, he doesn't charge the customer. he doesn't charge the customer?

he must be a perfectionist. i put myself in the customer's position. i keep going until the customer is satisfied. if the customer isn't satisfied, i don't get paid. you weren't even making money. your wife was lonely for no reason. right? we're not going to starve because i don't charge a customer.

my reputation is more important. your income won't be affected even if you don't work on her birthday or your anniversary. it's a difference in thought. it's a day that comes around all the time. hey. customers come all the time, too. customers come all the time. why do you think like that?

you try to satisfy your customers. why don't you satisfy your wife? it's just a bag the customer isn't satisfied with. it's a different class. do you know what i think? the trauma of the hot dog… this sounds like a thesis. you're defensive and self-centered. your self-satisfaction seems important.

what other people think doesn't seem to matter. i'm curious. you keep talking about yourself. what did you do for your wife? she has someone by her side. i'm there for her. is he right? she's lonely! i feel like i don't have a husband.

you're not on the same side. you're on different sides today. let's meet his parents. hello. (father-in-law / mother-in-law) father, he really doesn't come to family events? he says he's busy and doesn't come. we have to go over there to barely see his face once.

mother, what about you? it must be a concern. yes, it's a concern for me, too. we only live 5 minutes away. 5 minutes? yes, we live nearby. you live that close by? your house? their house. father, sons takes after their fathers.

how are you? does work come first? or does family come first? my wife comes first. who do you think he takes after to work so much? you or mother? or another family member? i think he takes after my wife. i'll give her the mic. all i knew was work, too. you were like that.

i've never been to jejudo. i regret living like that now. i tell him not to live like that, but he won't listen. he doesn't listen. there's someone who's been frowning. the person wearing the cap. is it just the way he looks? please introduce yourself. who are you?

he's laughing. i'm her brother. are you happy because you're on tv? why were you frowning? i got married in september last year. this is the first time i'm seeing him since then. the first time? you didn't see him during the holidays? she came by herself for

grandmother's 80th birthday. i asked and she said he was busy. he should have at least called, but he didn't even call. it's embarrassing to call to congratulate someone. my wife could congratulate her. how old are you? i'm twenty-seven. you're younger than me.

you're wrong! you're wrong. are you going to do that to your pretty wife? are you? what dialect is that? you're in no position to talk! is that a dialect? tell him. there must be something you want to say to him.

say it. who knows when you'll meet again? you never meet. tell your brother-in-law. scold him. kwanghee. close your mouth. (okay) say something. my sister is strong and quiet.

we had a drink once and she said she was having a hard time. it hurt to hear that. be good to her. there isn't much to say. are you good to your wife and her family? i'm pretty good to my wife. you remember your anniversary? how can you say that yourself? ask his wife.

she's not my wife. she's not? (he's always pairing people up) when is your wife's birthday? january 5. when is your anniversary? september 5. when was the last time you kissed? we kissed yesterday.

when was your last kiss? before we got married? (what?) (did i hear correctly?) the last kiss… some people skip kissing. i understand. you should stick to the order. are you from miryang or did you move there

after you got married? i moved there. where are you from? changwon. so your friends… they're all in changwon. you must be lonely. i'm alone and lonely. when there are couple gatherings, i go by myself.

you go to couple gatherings by yourself? that's not the brother's wife. she's her friend. how did you feel to be misunderstood as his wife? not bad. isn't that your boyfriend? he's my husband. (tada) what's going on? does she really come alone?

we have couple gatherings often. she always comes by herself. her husband is a mysterious person among us. when were you most upset? i was going to see cherry blossoms with my husband. i told her to go with her husband. he was busy, but she wanted to go, so the three of us went.

- the three of you… / - that's uncomfortable. you heard your wife's friend. what do you think? people who want to have fun can have fun, but people who want to work should work. she wants to have fun with you. i don't want to have fun. it's like which came first, the chicken or the egg?

can we see what work it is that you do? i'll show you. come on out. luxury brands… what do you do with them? this used to be an ivory color. you dyed it. it was used for about 10 years. it was a reform job.

that's the original bag. oh, that? unbelievable. goeun, you know luxury goods. take a close look. the leather was worn a lot. i made it look new. i added color. he's good. what about this?

that's how it looked. you reformed it? that bag changed like this? the color was changed. the corners get worn after 10 years. how much do you get for this? about $70. $70 to change the color? wow, that's cheap.

it isn't just the color. it's almost new. you could charge more. - really. / - it's too cheap. the price has to be reasonable. it can't be too expensive or too cheap. i think that's an appropriate price. you look like lee byunghun. (this leather is nice) give me a massage.

do that. doesn't it seem natural? it suits her so well. how long does this take? 5 days, 5 days. this took 6 days. how much was this? it was only dyed in the front. so, $50.

it took 5 days. he did a meticulous and neat job. thank you. he has a truly artisan spirit. we should applaud his skills. this is unbelievable. (i'm tired of it) did you think about what your wife must be doing when you work?

no, not once. what do you think she does? she must do what she has to. what do you think that is? meet her friends, eat or watch tv. it sounds like you don't care what she does. right. if she needs me, she'll call. if not, she won't. it's alright if she goes on a trip for a few days?

no, she can't do that. why not? we have to be together. together? you won't go with her. we sleep together. she wants to go on a trip with you, but you can't because you have to work. you should let her do what she wants. she doesn't have to go now.

we can go later. when is later? 10 years? 20 years? is there a certain amount you have to make before you can go? i have a dream. my dream is to own a building. you want to own a building. me, too!

you can buy one with $100,000-200,000. you'll remember anniversaries and take trips then? we'll have leisure then. how much time do you think that will take? 10 years? you'll make $200,000-300,000 in 10 years? i'll make it happen. who says she'll still be here in 10 years? that's realistic. she could leave.

if i was your wife, i wouldn't wait. she has to wait like this for 10 years. let me be direct. your wife or your work? it's all to live a nice life with her. it's all talk. he should be by my side when i'm sick. if he thinks of me first. i was really sick 2 years ago.

he didn't come home even then. he didn't come home? no, he didn't. he didn't answer his phone either. why didn't you answer your phone? your wife was sick. it was a bit late in the evening. i thought she was calling to nag about coming home.

it turned out she was sick. it hurt a bit. but she wasn't seriously ill. you don't have to be seriously ill to be sick. how sick does she have to be for you to rush over? if she collapses. what if she does? you won't go if she doesn't collapse? what if she's bleeding, but she can still stand? you won't go?

shouldn't he take care of his own health, too? you get nosebleeds. he gets nosebleeds all the time. he broke into a cold sweat once. we were on the way home. he became unconscious on the way. we went to the emergency room. the doctor said it was overwork and enteritis due to stress and told him to rest.

but he went back to work? he went to work. he's addicted. (i didn't collapse) what do you want most? i'd really like to get pregnant this year. it's been 4 years. he comes home late and he's tired, so he goes to sleep right away.

he just falls asleep. my friends raise babies. i don't have a baby and i'm lonely. if we had a baby, i could take care of the baby. it's lonely. aren't you going to have a baby? i'd like to, but i'm not ready yet. ready for what? as i told you earlier…

you have to own a building to have a baby? yes? i still remember eating that hot dog. i don't want my son… what does a hot dog have to do with a building? we'll have the leisure. he shouldn't have eaten that hot dog. why did the kid have to drop it? mother.

were you that poor when he was little? you said you worked a lot. it wasn't that bad. is he a glutton? listen. you're planning to have a baby in 10 years. think of how old she will be. it could be even later than that. didn't you think about your wife at all?

the average age for a first delivery is thirty-two. in 10 years, i'll be 37 and she'll be 38. that's a delivery at an old age. the average age could be older then. it could be forty. (what is he saying?) wait. how old were you when you ate that hot dog? i was in the 7th grade.

fourteen? if you have a baby now… you said you'll have a stable life in 10 years. if you have a baby now, he'll be ten then. even if he wants to pick up a hot dog, he won't because you have a building. that's how it will be. you can have a baby now. right, you should have a baby now.

there's no guarantee i'll own a building then. i want to have a baby after i own one. is there a guarantee you can have a baby in 10 years? why didn't you get married in 10 years? after owning a building. you don't even kiss her. (hmph) i got married because i didn't want to be apart.

i wanted to be with her. are you a magnet? you satisfied your desire to not be apart. your wife's desires should be satisfied, too. the two people in a marriage should both be satisfied, not just one person. two people met. listen to her carefully.

(a lesson you couldn't pay for) she got married the earliest here. you keep saying the same thing. something strange happened because he ate a hot dog. say what you want to him. we got married. think about me a bit. work less and take care of your health. let's have a baby this year.

goeun, is it a concern or not? oh, this is the button. i think it's a concern. think about your priorities in life. i think it's a concern, too. press the button. yonghwa. me, too. - yeah? / - yes.

it's not a bad thing to work hard for your family, but this is too one-sided. he's not a bad person or a mean person. they're both nice, but a different in thought is making life tough. it's frustrating. if you sympathize with her, press the button! (what does the audience think?) 5.

4. 3. 2. 1. stop. stop! 'addicted love' received 176 votes. how many votes do you think she'll get? out of 200. you don't think it's a concern.

a hundred at most? even after hearing all these beeps? if it's over 100, will you change a bit? i have to own a building. what if she leaves you? i don't think it's bad enough for her to leave me. we know that's what you think, but… well…

say something to your wife. i didn't know it was so hard for you. i don't want to let all my hard work go to waste. i'll be sure to own a building in 10 years and… he's as stubborn as a bull. ooh! (she jumps up) (a shot put appears) (i'm sorry)

i made a promise this year. you're still young to know, but a building isn't that important in life. you should build a building of happiness. i think you'll regret it a lot when you finally get that building. i wonder how many votes she got. i think she could win 1st place. show us!

the current winner received 176 votes. show us the last digit first. let's drink some water after this. 179? let it be 199! it can't be 199. just be 189. 189? ('find my husband' is the new winner)

(why?) she's 1st place. this is how much of a concern it is. (go home) 'find my husband' is the new winner. a lot of people are suffering because the husband can't overcome this. hello, i'm a housewife of 8 years who starts the day with a flying kick.

are you going to be like this? get up! come on, get up! get up! it's a battle every day because someone sleeps so much. a lot of people can't get up in the morning? for 36 years, my husband never got up on his own. he's late to work every day.

if i go to work without waking him up, i don't hear from him all day. why don't you answer your phone? were you late today? i was worried. "i got up late," "but i wasn't late to work." "i just didn't go to work." when i don't wake him up…

he can't get up unless he's woken. even the next day… honey, where are you? you went to work, right? where are you? "i didn't go because i was sleeping." he didn't go to work for two days and just slept. that wasn't good. i told him to sleep at work. sleep at work.

that would be better. the day he wasn't home, our second child got sick. i called my husband, but he didn't answer. i called his brother. my husband isn't answering. our child is sick. help me. i had to call an ambulance and our child was taken to the emergency room. i couldn't take it anymore.

honey, stop sleeping and wake up. come on! that's her concern. just how bad is it? let's meet her and find out. never gets up on his own?) (wu sunja) a lot of people have to sleep in the morning. many people have a hard time getting up. it can't be that serious a concern.

why do you think i came on the show? for 8 years, he's always been late to work. for the 8 years you were married? i start the morning kicking him. once, i did a flying kick and injured the coccyx. it was hard for a few days. you kick him to wake him up? he must not get up. you said it was a flying kick.

you mean like this? tell us. like this? was that it? no, i take about two steps and kick him. in the butt. in the butt. get up. like this? try kicking me. do you want to die?

turn around. he's sleeping like that. go ahead. (hesitation) kick him like you really do. show us. we have to see it. we have to know. use a cushion for protection.

on your butt. your butt! what are you doing? okay, okay. here. go ahead and kick him. hold it by your butt. i have to aim. (she aims) (she runs toward her husband) (with all her strength!)

(she kicks!) (she has to do that) (get up!) (it's morning!) she must kick really hard. what a surprise. does he get up? he gets up because it hurts a lot. tell us how he's late.

he has to be at work by nine. he's always late by about 5-10 minutes. sometimes, he gets up at 11 or 12. if he gets up at 1 or 2, he just doesn't go. he didn't get fired? that doesn't make sense. it's been 8 years. is the owner his friend?

is he the owner? he's an engineer for a small company. he must have been late for dates. we dated for 6 years. you didn't know? we didn't date early in the morning, so… you didn't know. no, i didn't. when we got married, my mother-in-law said

she was free now. i didn't know what she meant. now you know, right? yes. it's very hard. i don't understand. i can understand him wanting to sleep, but being late to work all the time. that's being irresponsible. i really don't understand that.

let's meet the husband. hello. it looks like he would sleep well. it must be because he sleeps a lot. he has nice skin. wasn't it hard to get up this morning? she started waking me up at 9:30. i got up at 11. she woke you at 9:30, but you got up at 11? are you late to work every day?

i have to be at work at nine. i usually get there around 9:30. they understand that much. they understand that? our children have to go to daycare and kindergarten. my wife thinks i should get up at 7 or 7:30. i should eat breakfast with them and see them off, but i can't get up. i get up late and go to work.

your daughter is mad. it's not kindergarten! i go to school! she started elementary school this year. she's saying she's not in kindergarten. i'm not a baby! i'm a student! what's your name? jo hanbyeol. use a respectful tone. how cute.

does your dad sleep a lot? he doesn't get up even if we tell him to. do you get up well? she can't lie. (she's so cute) i get up earlier than my dad. you do? okay. (hmph!) you have a job.

how can going to work at 1 be allowed? when we're busy, i work for 3 months without a day of rest. i work from 9:30 to 9 in the evening. if i'm working past 3 or 4 in the morning, i just sleep a bit at work and start working again. are you always that tired? yes, i'm tired every day. it's chronic fatigue.

do you drink a lot? i don't drink. you don't drink? - does he smoke? / - he doesn't smoke either. do you gamble? people who don't drink and smoke gamble. how can he sleep so much when he doesn't drink or smoke? is he addicted to working?

he finishes working on time? he doesn't want to own a building? oh, they have two children. how could you have children without a building? two of them, too. (he has no ambitions) he works late for months. can't you understand? he's working hard. i have a job, too.

i see. we have three shifts at the convalescent hospital. convalescent hospital? the hours are irregular. it must be hard. i worked hard all day. i took care of patients all day, but it's like having another one at home. i totally understand.

i hate that. he has a personal nurse. (how long do i have to take care of you?) what about when you went to school? my mother always woke me. she woke me until i got up. i received the attendance award all the way through high school. what about in the army?

it must have been hard for his mom. nobody wakes you up in the army. you have to get up on your own. i was a public service worker. your mom woke you up then, too. (mother, i really respect you) that's why she said she was free. everyone sets the alarm. you can't hear the alarm?

i tried using three alarm clocks. you made an effort. i can't hear it at all. you don't want to hear it? no, i really can't hear it. what other efforts did you make? even if i go to sleep at 6 or 7 to get up early, i still get up late. you went to sleep at 6 p.m. and got up when?

8 a.m. the next morning. 12 hours? what was the longest you slept? i slept for two days once. (is that possible?) without waking once? doesn't your back hurt? i change my posture if my back hurts. you must get hungry.

no. once i start sleeping, my mind is in a daze. i just keep switching my posture. what about the bathroom? since i don't eat… do you go ahead of time to sleep for 48 hours? moms can beg you to wake up, but dads can't stand that. it's irritating.

didn't your dad scold you? i didn't get up, so my father poured water on me once. when you were sleeping? he poured water on you? you must not have gotten up. i think it was in middle school. (a sleeping expert of 36 years) (it's no use calling him)

(dad is bad!) i want to ask you. do you have a weak will? it seems so when it comes to sleeping. i'm responsible with my work. it's just sleep? that's why everyone understands even if i'm late. was there a time you were in a bind because he didn't get up on time?

when i get off the night shift, the younger one has to go to kindergarten at 8 and the older one has to go to school at 9. since he doesn't get up, both our mothers help out. - they come to wake them up? / - yes. (when your husband is at home?) the door was locked. my mom arrived first to get the younger one

ready for kindergarten. he didn't answer his cell or the home phone. he didn't open the door either. his parents and even his brother came. they barely got him to open the door. the kids went without eating breakfast. you must remember that. yes, i do. what happened?

they couldn't open the door with the key. my father kicked the door a lot. i don't think i got up for an hour. you couldn't hear him kicking the door? i can't even hear the alarm. it must have been frustrating. the brother is here for the in-laws. he looks alike. how was he before he got married?

my mother starts waking him. it takes at least 30 minutes. it takes 2-3 hours when he really can't get up. my mother had a hard time. i think that's why she said she was free. how can you not get up? when did you think it was a serious problem? i was getting ready for work. my sister-in-law called around 7:40.

the younger one's blood sugar level dropped. she broke into a cold sweat and had a fever. my brother wasn't answering his phone. i was on my way to work, but called in and went to help my sister-in-law. she's a nurse, but she panicked. sure, the baby was really sick. she lost her mind. we called an ambulance and went to the hospital together.

you must have been really scared. i couldn't think about anything. even if i think about it now… it's making her emotional. you completely lose your mind. what was her condition? her lips turned blue. her body was wet from a cold sweat. i tried to get her to suck on candy.

i asked my brother-in-law to call an ambulance. we went to the hospital. they told us to feed her some porridge first. i was the only one there, so i asked him to buy some porridge. he did everything her dad should have done. dad didn't see her until her condition improved? yes, he came when we were waiting for the result. where were you?

i was up all night working. i didn't know the phone rang. don't you have your phone next to you? i had it with me, but i didn't know. even if you miss a call, don't you know you got a call? i called later and rushed to the hospital. you really didn't sleep? if this keeps happening…

our children had to go to the hospital regularly. it's hard after the night shift. if i ask him to take them to the hospital, he suddenly has a strong responsibility for work. he tells me to take them. i don't have a driver's license. i had to take the bus to take the both of them to the hospital. (that's mean)

it's upsetting from a woman's position. why did you do that? i take them about 7-8 times out of 10. she's mistaken. (she just sighs) are you talking about an emergency situation? when opinions differ between a husband and a wife, the wife is usually right. that's true.

i agree. you're not fully awake, but you like lying in bed? no, i can't get up. it hurts. - it hurts? / - yes. i get stressed when i work. i curl up when i sleep. when i wake up, my body hurts. why did you sleep in late in middle school? i was little then.

what about high school? it's a habit. he's stressed and tired at work. they let him get off at work, so he can rest on the weekends. but yesterday, he played games until three. games? (he's tired, but he played games all night?) does he help out at home?

i do everything. there's a lot of laundry and cleaning to do. he's so tired all the time, so i do everything. feeling stiff and aching in the morning. it's like that for everyone these days. who gets up feeling fully refreshed? my body aches in the morning, too, but i get up anyway.

you don't seem desperate enough. you only do what you have to do. everything else isn't your job. that's what it seems. what do you think about that? it's a bit of a habit. i admit that. shouldn't you make an effort then? you played games until three!

you said your body hurts. - no. you don't smoke either, right? / - right. my co-workers drink 3-4 days a week. i don't drink or smoke, so i relieve stress by playing games. the people who drink. they get tired the next day. but they're not late for work. most people aren't, but i'm different.

you don't drink, but you're late. how does she relieve stress? by kicking him. do you let her kick you for that? (why can't he get up?) are you sick? it seems like he's wondering if he should say yes. i think he's going to cry. i saw a psychologist because i was stressed.

you did? did you take medicine for depression? i took a little. i collapsed at work twice. i went to the emergency room. he collapsed about three times since we got married. i rushed to the emergency room twice after putting the kids to sleep.

twice? you left the children by themselves? my brother-in-law or mother-in-law. you must be grateful to him. i'm very grateful to him. do you rely on him more? why are you trying to make things strange? it seems like you didn't know it was hard enough for her to send this concern.

i knew. i always know it's hard for her. she asked for a divorce several times. oh, she said that. she got mad when things were hard. i have no intention of getting a divorce. she does. she thought about it. he won't have anyone to wake him up. who's going to wake you up?

i can't control it. it frustrates her. you should take it seriously if she mentioned divorce, but he doesn't seem to care much. we can't get a divorce. i won't make it to court. the other husband didn't think a divorce was possible either. what do you think about this? sleeping a lot in the morning.

can you understand? it's affecting everything. i didn't hear everything because i was thinking about my work. you were thinking about work? what about it? it's really unbelievable. you don't know what the concern is about? all i heard was that he sleeps a lot.

you don't know the details? he's not interested. what were you thinking about? specifically. i have to have the three items delivered. i have to take pictures of the new orders. we'll explain for you. the husband sleeps so much that the wife thought of getting a divorce. could she divorce him for sleeping a lot?

he doesn't know what we're talking about because he didn't listen! he doesn't go to work for 2 hours. he can't be reached when the child is sick. he doesn't get up even if she kicks him. it was like that for 8 years. it can't be that bad if she's still living with him right now. that's why she wants a divorce.

let's just stop! how frustrating. he just thought about his work. what makes sense is that a lot of people will think it can't be that tough. but the person in that position goes crazy. it's quite a concern. say something to him. honey.

the kids grow up really quickly. you come home late when they're asleep. you should get up a bit early to eat with them and talk a bit. stop playing games and sleep before midnight. is it a concern? i think it is. he seems really nice, but it's a concern. - yonghwa. / - i think it's a concern, too.

you can get up if you put your mind to it. you should get expert help, receive treatment or work out to be more fit. i think you could fix it. with such hope, i'll say it's not a concern. i think it's a concern for the wife. if you think she suffered for 8 years, press the button! you must have been upset so many times.

what's charming about him for you to still be doing this? is it the way he sleeps? he's nice. he looks nice. it's nice when he smiles brightly. smile for her. oh, that. he has a shy smile.

he has a bright smile. will this concern receive over 179 votes? show us the result! the last digit first. oh? will it be a tie? that could be possible. a lot of people pressed the button in the end. that's a lot.

(eliminated) (survives) 'can't take it anymore'. it's from a man in his 20's. hello, my peaceful life was ruined since i met a guy. it started at a party after an event on campus. ♪ i'm a loner. i'm a loner ♪ ♪ ttara diri daradu ♪

"you sing pretty well." "i'm lee sangeon." "seeing you, i got a feeling." "how about being in a band together?" i sounds like it could be fun. "that's a yes, right?" "we'll start a band today, okay?" he decided it all by himself? thanks to him, i became the main vocalist of

a band just like that. "if we're going to be in a band," "we should have a hangout place." a few days later… "hey." "i found a hangout." "it was really cheap." "there's a deposit and we need repairs" "and furniture, so everyone, pay $2,000 each."

what a ripoff. i had to give him money. do you know what else? "i heard you were introduced to a woman." she's not really my type. "i'll make this work for you." regardless of my will, we suddenly started dating. because of his friend? is my life his?

he keeps getting ahead of himself. please stop him. there are people who make decisions like that. people who are overly motivated. let's meet this man who has a friend like that. (who is suffering because of his friend's strong drive?) (kim jeongseon) (leisurely)

he's full of leisure. kim jeongseon? are you getting along with your girlfriend? the one you suddenly started dating? we broke up after a week. i said she wasn't my style. she suddenly sent me a chat wanting to date. i asked my friend about it. he took my phone.

he replied okay. we suddenly started dating. i became the bad guy who broke up after a week. you became the main vocalist of a band. you must be pretty good. he must sing well. can we see how well you sing? oh, yeah. we'll see. we're singers.

how well do you sing? we have an ear for that. you have an ear? sure, our ears are open. you just don't have a mouth for it. that's possible. ♪ without sense ♪ ♪ like the day i let you go ♪ (he's singing with sincerity)

(what is this strange feeling?) it's no use. he's not good enough to be in a band, but he's not terrible. let's hear what kwanghee thinks. what is your opinion? he's like me. no more, no less. tell us what else your friend did.

we went to the public bath. an outdoor bath. he said it would be nice to go on a trip to japan. i said it would be really nice. we went to japan the next week. that's hard to do. isn't that charming? it's not charming. it's a concern.

who made all the plans for the trip? he did. - then it's good. / - it's nice. listen to me. he didn't pay for everything, did he? he pays for everything, but i have to pay him back. you have to pay him back? you didn't have to go!

what if you don't pay him? i didn't try that yet. you didn't have to go. he'll lose the money. he made the reservation, so it's his fault. oh, that's true. i don't have any time for myself. i'm afraid what he'll plan next. he must do a lot of things.

- it varies. / - yes. let's meet the friend. who is this friend? the one with the dark complexion. oh, him. he's here because of you. how do you feel? honestly, i don't think this is a concern. everyone says that, but they win 1st place. i really don't think this is a concern.

my dad says a man who is all talk is a con artist. i have to keep my word. if i say i'll quit smoking, then i should. that's good. that's pretty charming. it sounds charming. the trip to japan surprised me. there's a lot to prepare for a trip. did you convince him because you wanted to go?

i asked if he was going to go. he said yes. what was the conversation like? show us. do you want to go to a hot spring in japan? a hot spring? that would be nice. we'll really go, okay? you agreed! you should have said you won't go. you didn't say you'd think about it.

you just said okay. then you have to go. i think they left out part of the conversation. men and women go in the bath together there. right? (gotcha) honestly, yes. what did you say? that's amazing.

you went to a mixed bath? they only had a family bath. we went to the wrong one. they went to the wrong one. it was just the two of you? i think it would be nice to have a friend like that. it's not bad. he'll do everything for you.

you might think that's convenient. but he should ask first. he asked. you said okay. he mentioned the mixed bath. because of the mixed bath? it's not that. you have to be careful what you say. he's being manipulated.

we should hear from the other friends. he's a bit confused and out of his mind. let's hear from the other friends. he didn't say it right because he panicked. you tell us. a normal conversation would consist of a question and an answer. i don't think he learned that properly. he didn't learn that properly?

he doesn't ask if you want to do something. he says wouldn't something be nice? if you say that sounds like fun, he takes that as a yes. he talks in an interrogative form? yes, he starts everything. it was in october of last year. he asked if it would be fun to have a hangout. a hangout?

we said it would be fun. he showed us a picture two days later. he said it would be our hangout. it would require some repairs, furniture and recreational equipment. he asked me and the friend wearing the cap to each pay $2,000. he asked for it. what did you do? pay him.

you paid him? where did you get it? $2,000 is a lot of money. we did some internet-related work together. he's the manager. he managed our salary. and? i asked why we weren't getting paid. he said it was to pay for the hangout.

i think he would be good at a business. i paid a bit more. not just $2,000. it was $6,000. i paid $2,700 and they paid $1,700. he's honest. heh heh heh. did they tell you to get a hangout? (what is the truth of this concern?) let's see the hangout that cost $6,000.

you have a picture? there's a picture. let's take a look. (the elegant hangout he found) what is that? that's a hangout? what is that? there's nothing there. it's big. it's a big place. it's big. why is it so big?

($6,000 worth of class) is that before or after repairs? it must be before. you left? it's a recent picture. it's not classy. i was busy, so i gave away the furniture. how much is the deposit? about $1,500.

the rest was… - where was it spent? / - where did it go? on the interior and furniture. you bought everything with your joint funds, but you gave away the furniture. did you tell them? - the furniture? / - yes. (unbelievable) he looks really surprised.

it's been about half a year. we went there less than five times. his friend was getting married, so he notified us he would give the furniture. he notified you. the tv and what not? what was given away? the tv, sofa, desk, chairs, heater… everything.

cushions. - that's why it's empty? / - yes. without any class? it was their money, too. the deposit was $1,500. what was the rest spent on? the interior work. be specific. i wrote it down.

construction for a tap, $1,500. paint cost $400. the sofa was $400. two refrigerators, $300. a desk $150. the flooring cost $200. five chairs, $150. there was a large painting. that cost about $300.

that painting? the painting? (one of the top three expensive goods) (the only class that remains) he looks a bit surprised. oh, boy. he said he was giving away the furniture. i thought it would be one or two. everything was gone.

why do you let him do that? you should be clear. you don't seem to make your opinion clear. do it to me. i'll show you how to refuse. try it. like you did to him. do you like japan? you do? do you like hot springs?

okay, wait a bit. then you plan the trip? (it happened in the blink of an eye) he got you. i get you. i understand. there's no room to stop him. (now do you know how i feel?) (it's a concern) try it to yonghwa.

it's serious. the hangout. yonghwa, you have to refuse. did you watch "a gentleman's dignity" yesterday? jang donggun was great with the guys, right? what did you think? look him in the eyes. he was alright. i thought it was really nice, right?

it was nice, wasn't it? yeah. it was nice. - right? / - yes. i know. wait a while. is it over? (he's a scary person) there's no time to stop him.

i get it. there's nothing you can do. what don't you understand the most? he even plans my future. your future? he did voluntary work in indonesia. he said it's really nice there. i thought it would be fun to study abroad there. he got recommendations from the department head

saying i really wanted to go to indonesia. he did? he got you recommendations? he reserved a plane ticket, too. to indonesia? - yes. / - no way. he's charming. do you want to be a manager? he would make a great manager.

be my manager. do that for me. i apologized to the professors. i was scolded and i paid for the ticket. you paid for it. you can't decide his studies. i said i enjoyed the volunteer work there. he responded in a positive manner. so did he. i found a place for them to stay there.

but they said they wouldn't go. did they say they would go? they implied they would go. the one in the cap. did you say you would go? - no. / - he said he would go. he convinces you saying what's good about studying abroad and it would be helpful to find a job. you can't say no.

we say it would be nice to go. it would be nice. that's it. that's how we said it. earlier, you were lured because there were mixed baths in japan. something was omitted here, too, right? he had a girlfriend. someone there? someone he's interested in?

yes. we call that 'some' in english. in english? (is that right?) you wanted to go because of that 'some' woman? - you really wanted to go. / - a little bit. - a little bit? / - yes, a little bit. it wasn't just that though. the one you met before? yes, doing volunteer work.

a month was too short. what did you do for her? you did something for her, right? she said she wanted to go to school together. i said wait i while. you made a promise. (how can you use us for your love?) (sorry) can you get a recommendation for someone else?

but? i lied about getting a recommendation. oh, you lied to him. did you think that was possible? from everything he did, i thought so. he could do anything. did you reserve the tickets? honestly? honestly.

because… i had to say that to make them go. he said he paid you for it. i said it cost $50-100 and told them to pay $70 each and i'd take care of the rest. the friend with the cap didn't know. you just found out right now? his expression… i paid for everything until now.

he rolled up his sleeves. why are you surprised? i just… what surprises you? the fact he didn't get the tickets? that i didn't know any of this. this is like "the sixth sense". was it really a lie? it was a lie.

he didn't get the tickets. he didn't get the recommendations either. you shouldn't have lied about it. if it's that hard for you, just don't see him. that aspect isn't nice, but he's a good friend. he's fun. he's loyal. i think he would be.

he has strong loyalty. he's good to my parents, too. (that made him weak) it was my mother's birthday. i said he didn't have to, but he got her an expensive steamed ginseng set. men in the 20's aren't good at that. the husband over there. he went to his friend's mother's birthday.

he doesn't care about his own mother's birthday. what do you want to say to your friend? don't do what you want. things would be better if you discussed things. let's talk about things and discuss them. let's start with goeun. i don't think it's a concern. if you respect your friend, the energy you have is charming.

talk a lot with each other. young people these days have problems deciding. if it's controlled, it won't be a concern. the two of you experienced it. yonghwa. i wonder how he can do it at that age. is it a concern for him or not? - he was wrong. / - he's wishy-washy. they're the same. - it's not a concern. / - kwanghee?

i suggest him being a manager at our agency. are you refusing? he rejected the offer. you were rejected. he's clear about it. x! if you think it's a concern, i think it will be less than 100. i'd like to be your friend in good times and

in sad times. i think i went overboard a bit. seeing that you sent this concern. i'll try to control myself a bit. let's always be together. how many votes did he get? it didn't sound like a lot. two digits? is it two digits? is it over 100?

(will it beat the workaholic husband?) 37. 'find my husband' becomes the new winner. she wins a prize worth $1,000. until the day korea has no more concerns, "hello counselor" is here to help! ("you're so fine" / cnblue)

Tuesday, January 17, 2017